MESA, Ariz. — Strangers became close family friends four years ago when an Arizona woman accidentally texted the wrong person.
But this year, the unconventional group will celebrate with one less person.
In 2016, Wanda Dench meant to text her grandchildren when she said sent a message with the date, time and location.
βLet me know if youβre coming,β she wrote.
Jamal Hinton, a stranger, responded and asked for a picture. When Dench sent one, Hinton confirmed that he was not the intended recipient.
β[Youβre] not my grandma,β Hinton wrote. βCan I still get a plate [though]?β
βOf course you can,β Dench, 63, responded. βThatβs what grandmas do ... Feed everyone.β The text thread went viral.
Since then, Hinton and his girlfriend, Mikaela, have gone to Denchβs home for Thanksgiving every year.
βGaining a new grandma -- I thought maybe Iβd gain one getting married, but as a friend, itβs great,β Hinton, now 21, said in a November 2018 interview.
As promised! Hereβs our 2019 update π¦ @mikaela_autumn pic.twitter.com/hHGZUXYzr3
— Jamal Hinton (@kingjamal08) November 29, 2019
βI grew up in the military my dad was in the Navy and my husband ... was in the Army and we moved around a lot so I was always going to new places,β Dench said at the time. βAnd so strangers were not strangers to me ... Family is more than blood. Itβs the people you want to be with.β
This year will be different because Denchβs husband, Lonnie, wonβt be there.
He died in April from complications due to COVID-19.
βIt will be very sad," Dench told KPNX. βBut with friends and family around it will be OK.β
She told the news station that Lonnie βadored Jamal and Mikaela.β
Thanksgiving comes this year a little more than a month after Dench will hold a funeral for her husband.
She told KPNX she waited to have services so that people would feel more comfortable attending in the midst of the pandemic. She also wanted friends and family member to be able to say their goodbyes after coronavirus mandates were lifted.
Hinton hopes heβll be able to lift Denchβs spirits in the coming month. He plans to attend Thanksgiving, their fifth together, at Denchβs home again this year.
βYou never know what God has planned for you,β he said.
Thanksgiving isnβt going to be the same anymore but we will make the best of it π
— Jamal Hinton (@kingjamal08) October 9, 2020
More than 5,700 people have died in Arizona due to COVID-19.
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