Posted: 8:24 a.m. Monday, Aug. 19, 2013
But there are also hidden costs to keep your eye on.
For example, the loss of “family discount” plans on phone, cable, and insurance bills. Even the need for therapy for you or your kids can add to costs. With good planning, however, the money shocks of divorce can be eased.
Little things you might not count, like missing time off work to meet an attorney or go to a mediation session. And if real estate is involved, there can be extra fees involved in refinancing a mortgage, creating new deeds and title insurance and other transfer costs. Also, your need to pay childcare could go up if you no longer have the ex as in-house back-up babysitter.
Retirement nest eggs are often halved, leaving each side with reduced assets heading into retirement. The splits are intended to be fair, if not necessarily equal --- so the important thing is to make sure you have an accurate picture of what your spending and saving will be in retirement and before, and to plan from there.
Get accurate figures for all your added expenses before you run aground by doing the following: